Many people assume you can only buy life insurance for yourself—but that’s not the case. It’s both legal and common to purchase coverage on someone else, as long as certain conditions are met. Spouses often insure each other, parents take out policies for their children, adult children may cover aging parents, and business partners frequently use key person insurance to protect their companies.
However, you can’t simply take out a policy on anyone you choose. The law requires two key elements: insurable interest, meaning you would face genuine financial loss if that person passed away, and the insured’s written consent and participation in the application process.
This guide breaks down when and how you can buy life insurance on another person, the legal and ethical requirements involved, common real-world examples, and mistakes that could void your coverage—or even carry legal consequences.
Insurable Interest
Written Consent
Common Scenarios
Fraud Risk
Understanding Insurable Interest
What Is Insurable Interest?
Insurable interest is the legal requirement that you must have a legitimate financial stake in the life of the person you’re insuring. Simply put, you must be able to demonstrate that you would suffer genuine financial hardship—not just emotional loss—if that person were to die. This requirement exists to prevent people from taking out life insurance policies on strangers for gambling or criminal purposes. Insurable interest must exist at the time the policy is purchased, though it does not need to continue for the duration of the policy in most states.
Who Has Automatic Insurable Interest
- Spouses have unlimited insurable interest in each other
- Parents have insurable interest in their children
- Individuals always have insurable interest in themselves
- Business partners in each other for business debts
- Employers in key employees who impact revenue
- Creditors in debtors up to the amount owed
Proving Financial Dependency
- Documentation of financial support received
- Tax returns showing dependent status
- Shared household expenses and mortgage payments
- Business financial statements showing key role
- Loan agreements or cosigned debt obligations
- Evidence of caregiving costs that would increase
Examples of Insufficient Interest
- Friends with no financial connection
- Extended family members you don’t support
- Celebrities or public figures you admire
- Neighbors or acquaintances
- Ex-spouses after divorce is finalized
- Adult children who are financially independent
Bottom Line
Insurable interest is determined at the time of application and must demonstrate a clear financial relationship or dependency. While spouses automatically qualify and parents can insure minor children, other relationships require documentation proving financial loss would occur upon the insured person’s death. Courts have invalidated policies where insurable interest could not be demonstrated, resulting in denied claims even after years of premium payments.
Consent Requirements Explained
“You cannot purchase life insurance on another person without their knowledge and written consent. The insured individual must sign the application, participate in medical underwriting, and fully understand the policy terms. Secret life insurance policies are illegal and unenforceable.”
– Insurance Fraud Prevention Requirements
What the Insured Person Must Do
| Requirement | Description | Why It’s Necessary |
|---|---|---|
| Sign Application | Must personally sign the life insurance application | Proves knowledge and consent |
| Medical Exam | Participate in health screening and provide medical history | Required for underwriting decision |
| Identity Verification | Provide government-issued ID and verify identity | Prevents impersonation fraud |
| Health Questions | Answer detailed medical and lifestyle questions truthfully | Determines eligibility and rates |
| Understanding | Comprehend who will own the policy and receive benefits | Informed consent requirement |
What Happens Without Proper Consent
- Policy Invalidation: Insurance company can void the policy and deny claims
- Premium Forfeiture: May lose all premiums paid over the years
- Criminal Charges: Forging signatures or impersonation is insurance fraud
- Civil Liability: Insured person can sue for damages and emotional distress
- Contestability Issues: Claims within first two years face extra scrutiny
- State Penalties: Violations of insurance laws carry fines and sanctions
Common Scenarios for Buying Coverage
Insuring Your Spouse
Most Common Scenario: Married couples routinely insure each other to protect against loss of income, mortgage responsibilities, and childcare costs.
- Automatic insurable interest as spouses
- Can be owner and beneficiary of policy
- Protects household income and expenses
- Covers stay-at-home parent contributions
- Estate planning and wealth transfer tool
- No special documentation needed beyond marriage
Insuring Your Children
Planning for the Future: Parents purchase policies on children for future insurability, modest death benefit protection, and cash value accumulation.
- Parents have insurable interest in minor children
- Locks in insurability before health issues arise
- Lower premiums at young ages
- Covers funeral and grief counseling costs
- Cash value can help with college expenses
- Can transfer ownership when child becomes adult
Insuring Your Parents
Final Expense Coverage: Adult children insure parents to cover funeral costs, medical bills, or ongoing support they provide.
- Must prove financial dependency or support
- Often covers final expenses and burial costs
- May offset loss of income if parent provides care
- Can cover debt obligations you’ve cosigned
- Requires parent’s full consent and cooperation
- More expensive due to parent’s age and health
Key Person Insurance (Business)
Business Protection: Companies insure employees whose death would cause significant financial impact to operations or revenue.
- Insures executives, owners, key employees
- Company owns policy and is beneficiary
- Covers recruitment and training costs
- Protects against loss of specialized expertise
- Can offset revenue decline during transition
- Requires clear business financial justification
Buy-Sell Agreements
Partnership Protection: Business partners insure each other to fund buyout if one partner dies.
- Each partner insures the others
- Death benefit funds business interest purchase
- Prevents forced sale to outsiders
- Provides liquidity for estate taxes
- Coverage amount matches business valuation
- Requires formal buy-sell agreement document
Ex-Spouses (Special Cases)
Divorce Agreements: Sometimes divorce decrees require maintaining life insurance on an ex-spouse for alimony or child support protection.
- Usually specified in divorce settlement
- Protects child support or alimony obligations
- Insurable interest ends at divorce in most states
- Existing policies can often be maintained
- Cannot purchase new policy after divorce typically
- Should be explicit in court order
The Application Process
Step-by-Step Application Process
When purchasing life insurance on another person, both the policy owner (you) and the insured person must participate in the application process. The insured person’s involvement is non-negotiable and extensive, including medical exams, signature verification, and direct communication with the insurance company.
Detailed Application Timeline
| Step | Who’s Involved | What Happens | Timeframe |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1. Initial Discussion | Owner & Insured | Explain need, obtain agreement, discuss coverage amount | 1 day |
| 2. Application Start | Owner, Insured, Agent | Complete application with both parties’ information and signatures | 1-2 hours |
| 3. Medical Exam | Insured Person Only | Paramedical exam, blood work, medical history interview | 1-2 weeks |
| 4. Underwriting Review | Insurance Company | Evaluate risk, verify insurable interest, check financials | 2-6 weeks |
| 5. Approval Decision | Owner Receives Notice | Approved, declined, or counter-offer with conditions | Immediate |
| 6. Policy Delivery | Owner & Insured | Sign delivery receipt, pay first premium, coverage begins | 1-2 weeks |
*Timeline can vary significantly based on health complexity, required medical records, and underwriting backlog. Simplified issue policies may be faster.
Documents You’ll Need to Provide
- Proof of Insurable Interest: Marriage certificate, birth certificate, business partnership agreement, or financial dependency documentation
- Both Parties’ Identification: Government-issued ID for owner and insured person
- Financial Justification: Tax returns, business financials, or debt documents showing coverage amount is appropriate
- Medical Authorization: Signed release allowing insurer to request medical records for the insured
- Beneficiary Information: Full legal names, dates of birth, and Social Security numbers for beneficiaries
- Employment Information: Income verification for both owner and insured if relevant to insurable interest
State-by-State Legal Requirements
“While insurable interest and consent are universal requirements across all states, specific regulations vary. Some states have stricter definitions of insurable interest, waiting periods for business-owned policies, or special rules for insuring minors. Always verify your state’s specific requirements before proceeding.”
– National Association of Insurance Commissioners
Universal Requirements (All States)
- Insurable interest must exist at time of application
- Insured person must provide written consent
- Insured must sign application personally
- No forged signatures or fraudulent applications
- Insured must participate in medical underwriting
- Policy cannot be obtained secretly
- Beneficiary designations must be clear
Special State Variations
- New York: Stricter insurable interest documentation requirements
- California: Specific disclosure rules for employer-owned policies
- Texas: Additional consent requirements for business insurance
- Florida: Enhanced fraud prevention for stranger-originated policies
- Illinois: Special rules for insuring elderly family members
- General Note: Consult licensed agent in your state
Business-Owned Life Insurance Rules
- Must notify employee in writing before application
- Employee must provide explicit written consent
- Disclosure of coverage amount required
- Annual reporting to IRS for certain policies
- Limits on insuring non-key employees
- Some states require ongoing employment relationship
- Tax implications for death benefit must be considered
Advantages and Risks
Advantages of Insuring Another Person
- Financial Protection: Safeguards against loss of income or increased expenses
- Business Continuity: Ensures company can weather loss of key personnel
- Estate Planning: Provides liquidity for taxes and transfer of wealth
- Debt Coverage: Protects against default on cosigned loans or mortgages
- Guaranteed Insurability: Locks in child’s future ability to get coverage
- Peace of Mind: Reduces financial anxiety about potential loss
- Flexible Beneficiaries: Can designate who receives death benefit
Risks and Disadvantages
- Premium Burden: You pay ongoing premiums on someone else’s life
- Relationship Changes: Divorce or business dissolution may eliminate need
- Legal Complexity: Proving insurable interest can be challenging
- Fraud Concerns: Heightened scrutiny from insurance companies
- Contest Risk: Claims may be challenged if interest is questionable
- No Control Over Insured: Cannot prevent lifestyle or health changes
- Ethical Issues: Can create perverse incentives if not properly structured
Bottom Line
Purchasing life insurance on another person can provide crucial financial protection in legitimate scenarios involving spouses, dependents, or business relationships. However, the arrangement requires genuine insurable interest, full transparency and consent from the insured, and ongoing premium commitment. The decision should be based on demonstrable financial need rather than speculation, and all parties should understand the policy structure and implications before proceeding.
When You Cannot Buy Coverage
Prohibited Scenarios
Certain situations make it illegal or impossible to purchase life insurance on another person, even if you believe you have good reasons. Understanding these restrictions prevents wasted time, denied applications, and potential legal consequences.
Absolute Prohibitions
- Strangers with no financial relationship
- Celebrities or public figures you don’t know
- Friends without financial dependency
- Extended family members you don’t support financially
- Neighbors or casual acquaintances
- Anyone who refuses to give consent
- Minors without parental relationship
- Incompetent adults without guardianship
Difficult or Risky Situations
- Ex-spouses after divorce (usually prohibited)
- Adult children who are self-supporting
- Elderly parents you don’t financially support
- Romantic partners you’re not married to
- Former business partners after dissolution
- Employees without key person justification
- Distant relatives with no dependency
- Anyone with terminal illness (may be declined)
Red Flags That Raise Concerns
- Coverage amount far exceeds financial loss
- Multiple policies on same person by different owners
- Recent relationship formation before application
- Insured person has limited understanding of policy
- Owner has financial difficulties or high debt
- Pattern of policies on multiple unrelated people
- History of previous insurance fraud
- Suspicious circumstances or rushed application
Stranger-Originated Life Insurance (STOLI) Schemes
STOLI arrangements involve investors approaching individuals (usually elderly) to take out large life insurance policies with the intention of selling those policies to investors. These schemes are illegal in most states because:
- The investor has no legitimate insurable interest
- The arrangement violates the fundamental purpose of life insurance
- It treats human life as a commodity or wager
- Policies obtained through STOLI can be voided
- Participants may face criminal fraud charges
- Even if initially legal, policies can be challenged later
Critical Mistakes to Avoid
Application and Documentation Errors
- Failing to adequately document insurable interest
- Proceeding without explicit written consent
- Misrepresenting relationship to the insured person
- Providing false information on the application
- Not having insured person present during application
- Forging or coercing signatures on documents
- Hiding the true nature of the policy from insured
Coverage Amount Mistakes
- Requesting coverage far beyond actual financial need
- Over-insuring children when parents lack coverage
- Purchasing excessive key person insurance
- Not adjusting coverage when circumstances change
- Failing to justify high coverage amounts to underwriter
- Multiple overlapping policies that raise red flags
- Coverage that’s unreasonable for person’s income
Ongoing Management Errors
- Not updating beneficiaries after life changes
- Failing to maintain premium payments
- Not informing insured person of policy status
- Letting policy lapse during contestability period
- Not keeping the insured person informed of changes
- Failing to notify insurer of address changes
- Not reviewing coverage needs periodically
Bottom Line
The most critical mistake is attempting to purchase life insurance on someone without their full knowledge, consent, and participation. This not only makes the policy invalid and unenforceable, but can also constitute insurance fraud with serious legal consequences. Always ensure complete transparency, proper documentation of insurable interest, and genuine consent from the insured person. When in doubt, consult with a licensed insurance professional and legal advisor before proceeding.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I buy life insurance on my spouse without them knowing?
Direct answer: No, you cannot purchase life insurance on your spouse or anyone else without their knowledge and written consent. The insured person must sign the application and participate in the medical underwriting process.
All life insurance applications require the signature of the insured person, regardless of who owns the policy or pays the premiums. Your spouse must be aware of the policy, agree to the coverage, complete health questionnaires, and typically undergo a medical exam. Any policy obtained without proper consent is void and unenforceable. Insurance companies have specific procedures to verify that the insured person is aware of and agrees to the coverage. Attempting to obtain coverage without consent constitutes fraud and can result in criminal charges, not just denial of claims.
Can I take out a life insurance policy on my parent?
Direct answer: Yes, you can purchase life insurance on a parent with their consent, but you must demonstrate insurable interest by showing you provide financial support, would inherit debt obligations, or would incur significant expenses upon their death.
Adult children commonly insure parents to cover final expenses, outstanding debts they’ve cosigned, or to offset loss of financial support if the parent provides childcare or other services. You’ll need to document your insurable interest—such as showing you provide regular financial support, have cosigned loans with them, or depend on them for childcare that would need to be replaced. Your parent must fully consent to the policy, sign all applications, and complete the medical underwriting. Coverage amounts should be reasonable and justified by your actual financial exposure. Keep in mind that insuring elderly parents can be expensive due to their age and potential health issues, so compare costs against simply saving for final expenses.
What happens if I no longer have insurable interest after buying the policy?
Direct answer: In most states, insurable interest only needs to exist at the time the policy is purchased, not throughout its duration, so the policy generally remains valid even if the relationship ends, though there are important exceptions.
The general rule is that insurable interest is evaluated at the time of application and policy issuance. If you divorce your spouse, your business partner retires, or your adult child becomes financially independent after the policy begins, you typically can maintain the existing coverage. However, some states and certain types of policies have different rules. Employer-owned life insurance may require ongoing employment in some jurisdictions. Additionally, divorce decrees often require one spouse to maintain life insurance for the benefit of the other, and courts can enforce these provisions. You also cannot purchase new coverage on someone once insurable interest ends—for example, you cannot buy a new policy on an ex-spouse after divorce, even though you could maintain one purchased during marriage. Always consult with a licensed insurance advisor about your specific situation.
Can an employer take out life insurance on an employee without their knowledge?
Direct answer: No, employers cannot purchase life insurance on employees without providing written notice and obtaining the employee’s explicit written consent. Federal law and most state laws require employee notification and consent for employer-owned life insurance.
Corporate-owned life insurance (COLI) or employer-owned life insurance must comply with strict notification and consent requirements. Before applying for coverage, the employer must provide written notice to the employee explaining that life insurance will be purchased, the maximum face amount, and that the employer will be the beneficiary. The employee must then provide written consent. The employer must also provide annual statements to the IRS identifying employees covered by such policies. These requirements were enacted after scandals involving “dead peasant” insurance where companies secretly insured employees. Key person insurance on executives requires the same consent, though it’s typically more readily accepted given the business justification. Violations can result in tax penalties and invalidation of the policy.
How much life insurance can I buy on someone else?
Direct answer: The coverage amount must be justified by your actual financial exposure and insurable interest—typically limited to potential financial losses such as income replacement, debt obligations, business valuation, or reasonable final expenses, with insurance companies scrutinizing amounts that seem excessive.
There’s no fixed dollar limit, but underwriters carefully evaluate whether the coverage amount is reasonable based on your demonstrated insurable interest. For spouses, this might be 10-20 times annual income to replace lost earnings and services. For children, policies typically max out at $50,000-100,000 since there’s no income to replace. For business key person insurance, coverage should relate to the employee’s economic value, recruitment costs, and revenue impact. For elderly parents, coverage should reasonably match anticipated final expenses and outstanding shared obligations, typically $10,000-50,000. Requesting $5 million on an elderly parent with whom you have minimal financial relationship would be denied. The insurer will request documentation proving the coverage amount is justified, and excessive amounts raise fraud concerns that may lead to application denial or additional investigation.
Can the insured person find out that I have a policy on them?
Direct answer: Yes, the insured person not only can find out—they must be fully informed from the beginning since they have to sign the application, participate in medical exams, and provide explicit consent for the policy to be valid.
There is no such thing as a “secret” life insurance policy on another person. The insured individual must be an active, knowing participant in the entire process: signing the initial application, answering medical questions, undergoing paramedical exams, providing authorization for medical records, and signing policy delivery receipts. They have the legal right to know who owns the policy, who the beneficiaries are, and the coverage amount. Additionally, if the insured person requests information from the insurance company, the company will typically provide it, recognizing their interest in their own insurability. The only scenario where someone might not remain aware of a policy is if it was legitimately purchased years ago with their consent and they simply forgot about it—but even then, the initial purchase required their full knowledge and participation.
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Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal, insurance, or financial advice. Laws governing insurable interest, consent requirements, and life insurance regulations vary by state and change over time. The scenarios and examples provided are general illustrations and may not apply to your specific circumstances. Always consult with licensed insurance professionals and legal advisors before purchasing life insurance on another person. Attempting to obtain coverage without proper insurable interest or consent may constitute insurance fraud and can result in policy invalidation, denied claims, and criminal prosecution. Coverage amounts, underwriting requirements, and approval criteria vary significantly by insurance company and individual circumstances. This article does not guarantee that you will be approved for coverage or that specific arrangements will be permitted in your jurisdiction.
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